Monday Motivation| Stop Searching For YOU In Others

Happy Monday! We've entered into the the 2nd Monday of the month and I hope you're all doing well.  I wanted to share some words of advice that have been on my heart for a while. I want to share that I don't have all the answers and I don't have everything figured out.  I never want to come off as if I do when I'm using my platform. But I do want to share what I know and what I've experienced as a blogger or just in my life in general. I feel like we're  all here to share a story to help out the next person.

Since entering the blogger world I feel that there is SO much pressure to be this, to have this, to do  this or you have to have this to be creditable.  We let others and what we see dictate our credibility not realizing those who we are looking to for credibility  are looking to others for theirs. For so long I would l admire women in my field or women who are doing the damn thing! But after a while you get so wrapped in what they do that you lose who you are by trying to keep up with them or follow their lead.  Now don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with going to others for advice or admiring them but don't get caught up. Believe me I've been there so many times...

From this day forward I challenge you to LIVE for you! Live the life you've always imagined. Stop letting things or what you think people may say  hold you back. Don't get so caught up in the hype of being in the "in crowd" because that crowd eventually becomes TOO CROWDED and you'll see things for what they really are. Remember what your mission really is on this earth! Also I know you hear this all the time but DON'T GET DISCOURAGED BY WHAT YOU SEE ON SOCIAL  MEDIA! We're all showing the best of our lives!  Let COMPARISON  go as well, it's not worth it at all!

Also challenge you to dig a little deeper and love on yourself more. Give  the love to yourself the same way to tend to love people, even when they don't deserve it. You deserve love and caring as well. Remember that you matter regardless of what you've done or what you've been through! I'm saying all this because I've been there and I'm still working on it!  But just know you're not alone in this world!

Happy Monday!


1 comment

  1. this is truly the year of living for yourself and making sure you are happy!! I am so here for this post thanks for sharing xoxo


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